Find your pattern
Feeling stuck in patterns that won't change?
Behind every challenge lies an untold story. Together, we'll uncover and work on the deeper patterns that create lasting change
As your coach, I help you see the bigger picture, turning complex challenges into clear solutions, often more quickly than you'd expect.
As a psychotherapist, mental health professional, and transformative coach, I bring a unique systemic lens to personal development. My approach recognises that our challenges do not exist in isolation, they're shaped by relationship patterns, family dynamics, and even intergenerational influences we may not be consciously aware of. Not forgetting wider social, educational and even political contexts that impact every one of us.
Through years of clinical experience and research-backed understanding, I've observed that what we often label as individual mental health struggles are actually responses to deeper relational blueprints. By combining targeted psychoeducation with systemic insights, I coach clients quickly and impactfully to cut through complexity to achieve meaningful breakthroughs.
Together, we transform persistent and repetitive patterns into lasting positive change that extends beyond individual wellness to enhance your entire relational system.
So what makes my approach different?
By shining a light on your unique belief systems, values, and how you view your challenges, we can cut through the complexity, often finding surprisingly simple solutions.
Many of my clients experience insight in just one session.
Ready to gain clarity and finally move forward?
Let's have a conversation about what's possible for you.
Feeling stuck in repetitive negative patterns despite individual efforts to change
Experiencing anxiety, depression, or stress but sensing it's connected to relationship dynamics
Difficulty maintaining healthy boundaries in personal or professional relationships
Struggling with unexplained emotional reactions that seem bigger than current situations warrant
In your relationships
Repeating the same problematic relationship patterns across different partners
Difficulty breaking free from family dynamics that no longer serve you
Experiencing conflicts in current relationships that mirror childhood experience
Carrying emotional burdens from past generations without understanding why
Leadership challenges stemming from unresolved personal patterns
Communication difficulties in workplace relationships
Imposter syndrome or self-sabotage in career advancement
Blocks to the development of 'soft skills'
Feeling overwhelmed by a complex personal or professional situation with no clear path forward
Going in circles trying to solve a problem alone, overthinking and getting more confused
Unable to be objective about your situation because you are too emotionally involved
Having too many opinions from friends and family, creating more confusion
Knowing something needs to change but not sure what or how to start
A particular challenge or difficulty
A situation you need clarity on
If you are limited on time
Deep dive into a particular struggle
Option to extend beyond the single session if required.
Builds awareness into how family history shapes your parenting style
Intergenerational traumas, beliefs and values and how they contribute to ours, and our children's struggles - and often being the reason why traditional parenting techniques and courses are not effective.
Collaborative small group
Addressing the parental relationship,
some examples;
the overcompensating parent, the guilty parent, the avoidant / or enmeshed parent
The role/needs or demands of extended family
An exploration of anxiety (and other mental health difficulties) within children/young people - and whose is it exactly, and where did it come from?
Family homeostasis; uncovering the impact of myths and family stories on a family and why its hard to change
Parents mental health
Women's empowerment programme - a mix of life coaching, psychotherapeutic moments and authentic connection
The following runs over 12 weeks
8 Women per group
Online live sessions - 9 X 90 min sessions
Includes two in person whole day events to connect and inspire.
121 sessions - three 1 hour sessions, online, per person
I think it is always helpful to get a sense of someone before working with them, so I have written this piece with an attempt to demonstrate some of my credentials and experience.
I trained for 6 years initially as a psychotherapist going on to complete systemic practitioner training at the Tavistock centre. Adding in ICF credential coach training with an intention to support clients who were looking for additional ways of working which did not require weekly appointments, I wanted to incorporate and integrate my learning to support people in ways that met individual needs.
To share a little of my background, I have worked within mental health organisations, both NHS and private, and delivered training for a wide variety of businesses from premiership football clubs to the charity sector and into corporate organisations that want to have conversations around wellbeing incorporating different perspectives.
As the former mental health lead for a countywide family counselling service, I championed a truly trauma-informed approach. Rather than using diagnostic labels, we asked a simple but powerful question: 'What has happened to you?' instead of 'What is wrong with you?'
Even while working closely with NHS and social services, where medical model dominates, we maintained this human-centered perspective. This experience deepened my systemic approach, seeing people as whole individuals shaped by their experiences rather than defined by symptoms. Current research continues to validate this perspective, showing how our challenges often reflect our stories rather than pathology.
Fundamentally Trauma Informed
Authentic and congruent
No ridiculous or far fetched claims or promises
Collaborative and empowering